That I had very few, mediocre talents.
As I developed a sense of self, I felt obliged to be proud of my unique talents. No, I could not play a single sport, but I sure did have a nurturing heart. Definitely don't ever want to be put on a stage, at least I think of others' feelings. Can't sing, but I can shop. Oil painting is impossible, however I have mean calligraphy skills.
There were a few people down the way that did not see my talents as I tried to seem them. But this is where I found my best friends, developed more meaningful relationships.
Well, they felt more meaningful to me.
The truly unbelievable part,
I met a man who has the ability to be good at anything he tries to.
A trait I despise.
He also saw the good in me.
I can't fathom how much I have grown in the past year since we've been married.
I've grown.
Catching and throwing isn't the scariest thing in the world either. I can shoot hoops. He loves my singing voice. My art is the prettiest.
I still seem to get injured by sports, without being on the court.
But the talents I already had, they feel far more important now. They are what make me a good wife, a good friend, a good future mother.
So, huzzah!
This was written about a month ago, on our 1 year anniversary.











That last picture is just the best! And you have grown, I would agree with that. I think you've grown way more than I have since marriage haha. Sometimes when you texted me things that were happening I would be shocked, because I don't think I would have been able to handle it all! But you've done it gracefully. Very proud of you. not in a mom sort of way. Cause you're older than me anyway. Love that he loves all that there is to love about you :)
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